Jun 7, 2019 | Family, Lessons Learned, Misc, Sex + Dating, Uncategorized
When I moved from China to Raleigh back in 2015 I could not have imagined ever getting married, let alone getting married to my “Partner in Crime” and best friend. I married Aaron Watkins on Saturday, May 18 and it was one of the happiest days of my life! I would be...
May 9, 2019 | Funnies, Lessons Learned, Medical, Sex + Dating, Spinal Cord Injury
Aaron and I are getting married next Saturday, May 18. We’ve invited 70 of our close friends and family. Originally we started with only 30 guests, but somehow we’ve ended up with 70 guests 🙂 It’s going to be such a magical day as there are so many family friends I...
Feb 15, 2019 | Family, Lessons Learned, Misc, Sex + Dating, Spinal Cord Injury, Uncategorized
My fiancé and I have finally set a date for our wedding — Saturday, May 18! We got engaged back in August of 2017 and simply cannot wait to be married to one other. I had envisioned getting married in a bikini with a giant barbecue on the beach and having a big...
Dec 13, 2018 | Before the Accident, Lessons Learned, Misc, Sex + Dating, Spinal Cord Injury
Last week I was on one of my spinal cord injury Facebook groups and I was reading a post where a gentleman was commenting on how he was in love, but he just felt so incredibly lucky that someone could love him with everything that comes along with dealing with spinal...
Nov 8, 2018 | Lessons Learned, Misc, Sex + Dating, Spinal Cord Injury, Uncategorized
For the past two years I’ve taken several weeks a year to head down to Miami from my home in Raleigh, North Carolina for a “Life Break.” I used to live in Miami for about 12 years and am fortunate enough to have a place to stay when I go down there. I was feeling...
Aug 24, 2018 | Before the Accident, Family, Lessons Learned, Misc, Sex + Dating, Spinal Cord Injury
… I was staring at a blank page while thinking how to write the perfect article on how I got engaged this past weekend. My mind kept wandering back to when I was first injured in 2010 laying in my ICU bed with tubes coming out of every orifice of my body, a neck...
